Ups, Downs, Life, Sobriety

I have to preface this bit by stating that I’ve spent precious time getting my heart right before writing this. My emotions started out with anger, then disbelief, shock, which led to discouragement, that took me to listening to others views, which led me to the Bible. Diving in head first to read about Jesus, His ministry, and His responses. While my heart is in a calm place my stance is firm, my beliefs unwavering, and my cry for action remains loud.  For those of you whose faith may be weary, who may not believe in God, who have been hurt by a Christian, who have questions allow me to say, hang on! This piece isn’t to shove my belief on you as much as it is to share just how GREAT, just, and loving God is... to share with you the truth. To shed light on what we are called to do, how to act, and how to respond in troubled times, racism, brokenness in general.  Are we to take action?  Yes!  The Sermon on the Mount was full of some of Jesus’ best teachings. But one p...

I was trapped in mud in the middle of a dark forest.  All I wanted and still do, sometimes, is to sleep or run away. That's what being stuck felt like.  Uncomfortable...yes, but all too familiar.  Looking down at the mud I knew I couldn't keep running. I had to buck up. I had to kick myself out of my comfort zone. Years later, I am still learning. I am learning that not only did I have to change circumstances but that I also needed to change physically, and over all mentally as well.  Rain and mud give life. Rain helps things grow and mud, well, it isnt always pretty but comes with the territory. God designed both and they usually come hand in hand with our crops, flowers, etc during this particular season. I've always been fond of storms and maybe God knew I would always relate best to them.  Slowly, I felt better. I rediscovered hobbies, likes, dislikes, boundaries and much more. Yet, I felt something still awry.  As growth goes, these discoveries can oft...

When I painted on my pallet table on our deck I had no idea how seeing this heart would touch me every morning. Until now, that is... Friends, it's been a journey this past month. We have been given a gift of time with our loved ones, at least that's how I'm choosing to see this mess. Don't get me wrong, it's been hard, fun, challenging, isolating and all the in between....which is the inspiration behind this blog. If I'm honest, I wasn't, and I'm sure you weren't, prepared for all the emotions we would feel, experience, be burdened with and endure. Nor was I ready to fight a spiritual battle. Yet, here I am...doing just that.   It's befuddling to me how sneaky Satan can be and more so, how deceptive our hearts can be when we aren't tending them. Which leads me to a favorite verse, Esk. 36:26, "and I will give you a new heart, and I will put a new spirit in you. I will take out your stony, stubborn heart and give you a ten...

December 18th marked the beginning of a new year for me... 35. Good grief. Age is but a number, right? Right! I am blessed to make it this far in life, that's for sure. Self - Will ran riot for years on end...so yes, I will wear 35 proudly, with all the grace I have, all the shine I possess, all the no makeup moments I now cherish and walk unashamedly with my scars. Why has it taken me so long to embrace these things? Boy, I have missed out! I have missed loving my body, loving my face, my age, my experiences. It feels good. It feels exciting. I feel vulnerable and open to new journeys.....and here...my friends, are a few. . February marked a milestone. A hard one. One that I spent minutes, hours, days, weeks, months, and years praying over. Crying over. Seeking God over. Losing sleep over. Ugh. Agonizing. That is what it was. How do you embark on an ending? Is there even a "right" way? How do you say goodbye? Do you? How do you measure a relationship? I felt alone....

"And I will be to her a wall of fire all around, declares the Lord, and I will be the glory in her midst." Zechariah 2:5 Now, this is when the Lord appeared in a pillar of fire, would have been quite the sight, right? He was leading Israel to the promised land out of the wilderness. They were stubborn weren't they? Just like us! In the end times, the Lord will be a wall of fire for Israel against their enemies while they stay in their promised land. His love is steadfast isn't it? The Israelites definitely bucked their instruction on several occasions yet, here He is as always, loving them. That alone brings hope to me during this time of doubt. Here I am. Broken. Loved. Yet, my compass is spastic. All over the place. Here are the things I know: - My heart was feeling uneasy - I believed whatever it was, wasn't a big deal - I chalked it up to the change I have endured this past year - It would eventually go away..... I was confident in these "f...

The fall of humankind is intensely disheartening and exasperating. We can't escape it nor can we turn an eye away; what do we do? For starters, we have to understand we can't face this type of dark without God. We all, well most, know this world was born into sin. I believe this can easily be forgotten as for some unknown reason Christians are held to an extremely high standard - as though we aren't sinners! Let me clear the air, I AM A SINNER - THE BEST OF THE BEST, SO ARE YOU, SO ARE ALL OF US! Please know the only difference here is that as a believer I wholeheartedly believe in repentance, I believe Jesus died for me, you and everyone else to wipe our sins away.  I believe that asking for forgiveness means I am also signing up for learning new behavior, healthier ways of living in this horrible world that has become so, so dark. You see, when I lived in sin (disregarding my God) I never saw an issue with my way of life. Somehow, and only God knows how, He reached me...

2 Corinthians 12:9 And He has said to me, "My grace is sufficient for you, for power is perfected in weakness." Most gladly, therefore, I will rather boast about my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may dwell in me.  To begin, let me say that I have no earthly idea how we do what we do. Also, most of us (including any single full-time dad's) never asked nor dreamt of our reality. At some point, we all had visions of creating and being in a family which somehow became shattered. That said, we had a part in our shattered vision whether it was the decision of falling into a swoon of sweet talk, simple lust or living in sin ourselves which led to poor decision making.  However, here's what we didn't choose.  . The constant fight for a place in this world.  . The jobs we've lost due to sick kiddos, lack of daycare or the lack to provide funds for daycare, weekend hours that are required or the demand we put our job first and our child/chil...